I don't know why I, a 4/10 ever thought would stood a change
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@FiestaBun@decayable.ink guys will fuck anything if they are nice to them. I'm guessing you don't go out many places where they have an opportunity to meet you...and be nice to them?
I don't wanna be with random men, I hate that. I got my online bfs by being nice, as I always try to be.
I already sat an hour in a bar and hated it
I already sat an hour in a bar and hated it
@FiestaBun @satsuki online dating is a trap that can only take.
No one has ever shown interest in me irl, only online men crushed on me and showed interest after talking
@FiestaBun @satsuki in my experience, long distance is never a good idea, at least not without a firm expiration date. Online dating is like worse long distance. Believe me, I know it sucks out there though. There is no easy or universally applicable solution.
I was completely fine with it, but I don't understand why men would do it, if they aren't in the first place.. it hurts so much because I thought I finally wasn't alone after being so majority of my life
@FiestaBun @satsuki I think lots of people fool themselves into thinking it's a good idea. I think it pretty much never works out because it's a bad way to go about things. Perhaps there are exceptions or perhaps I'm totally wrong, but I don't partake, personally.
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@FiestaBun @satsuki fair warning before taking my advice though, Imma be alone forever
Well, I know all relationships have died because of me, I think it's my fault everytime, but I never have no idea why. From my point they are always going fine, because if there ever was problems with my behaviour or something, I would be informed. No one told me anything, so I thought everything was perfect
@FiestaBun @satsuki it takes two people to fuck up a relationship, I think
@putrid @FiestaBun @satsuki I think it just depends on how deep you want to go all the way back to "it was a bad idea to get in this relationship in the first place"
@melonhusk @FiestaBun @satsuki fair enough, but I think that's a dramatic exception to the general, "it just didn't work out"